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Three years ago Jason and Philippa Park were consumed by the dream of moving to France, buying a small château they had fallen in love with and starting a new life in the Loire valley.
The two former oil industry engineers, who met while working in Aberdeen, wanted a complete change and decided not only to buy in France but also to turn their new home into a luxury bed-and-breakfast business.
The couple, who have since married and now have a nine-month-old daughter, Verity, below, sold both their houses in Scotland, took a bank loan and sold some shares to meet the £600,000 price for the Château de Charly, which Jason found on the internet. The château, built in 1839, is an elegant Neo-Classical pile in 32 acres on the edge of Charly, near Bourges.
Initially everything went swimmingly as the Parks got their new business under way with some TV publicity from the Five show Build a New Life in the Country. The château's website still speaks of the thrill of those early days; the Parks were the proud “châtelain and châtelaine” of their stately home and planned, they said, to stay for ever.
But after three years of backbreaking work and coming up against the culture clash that faces all but the most Francophile of Britons living in France, this chapter has come to an end. Two months ago the Parks put the château up for sale for €1.3million and are hoping to return to Britain as soon as possible. So what has changed? The Parks have found that their priorities have shifted with the arrival of Verity and other family commitments in the UK. With 30 rooms and an enormous walled garden, swimming pool, orchards and woods to manage, they have found themselves trapped in the estate's clutches. Moreover, trying to run the B&B business means that they rarely get out. Philippa says: “The renovation and getting the place started up has been a lot of work. And with the baby as well, our perspective has changed.”
Philippa, 40, speaks fairly good French but Jason, 31, has struggled, and they have made few friends in a village where many are in their sixties. “We can have a chat and we can communicate,” says Philippa, “but we can't get to know people in the same way as we can in Britain. So we feel a little bit isolated.”
Jason found upgrading the house, on which they have spent £200,000, harder than expected. “It's not for the fainthearted,” he says. “If you are not 100 per cent sure you are doing the right thing, it will be a nightmare.”
The pair have learnt some valuable lessons. Philippa advises anyone thinking of moving to France: “Just be careful about the cultural gulf that there is between the UK and other places. It is one of the major factors when you try to settle down.”
The business is now making a profit and Jason has loved the peace and tranquillity of the Château de Charly. “We've broken the back of this and now someone else can reap the rewards, which is very annoying in some respects,” he says.
The project has been “an enormous learning experience”, says Philippa. “If we'd stayed in Aberdeen we'd still be dissatisfied and still wanting to do something better with our lives. We've come here, tried to do something different and it's turned out that maybe it isn't quite what we want, but that's fine. We'll go back to Britain and do something different.” The Parks are to apply their hard-earned knowledge to a new business, acting as advisers to Britons who want to buy or renovate property in the UK or in France.
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after three years the guy dosn't spek French....is he normal or a little bit slow???
meilleures salutations....
riccardo, brussels,
Moved to France 1990, husband skilled Mech Engineer he found work @ ANPE no spoken french, we loved France so we stayed 6 years only returned to UK due to illness in family, bought a cheap barn were renovating to relocate permanently back to France feb 2009 can't afford UK living, France is cheaper.
Dee, New Forest, Hampshire
That was a major move. Moving country, renovating, launching a business that you have no knowledge of, that's tough without the language and cultural issues. Then along comes Verity. I can understand the pressure. We did the same with a new baby but in the UK and it was tough but very profitable.
Phil Jowett, Abu Dhabi, UAE
Same problems moving from Devon to the Midlands Different language, culture, values it was as if you were in a different country Wish I hadn't bothered. Getting back now is impossible due to house values and unable to sell
Mag, West Midlands, UK
Why go to France to run a B&B business? My experience is the Aberdeen B&Bs are always full because of the Oil business, often found it difficult to get more than a night's accommodation.
norman, LONDON,
In France for years, speak English not French and not willing to integrate? Then why Brits and the government here
dish out pep talk to foreigners to learn English and integrate, moan about non-English -speaking immigrants.. I have seen very few Brits abroad speak the local language and integrate
Simon, Manchester,
We moved to the Pyrenees just over 2 years ago now - we worked hard to create 2 gites in the top of our old barn. Times have been hard but the business is going well. Having just returned from a few days in the UK I am suprised that they should long to go back - why?
Think they started too big!
Astrid & Barrie Watkiss, Pyrenees, France
So, the guy is setting himself up in business to act as an adviser to buy/renovate property in France, and he doesn't speak any French! Obviously not thought this new venture through either.
John Hamilton, Manchester, UK
I wonder what research they did before starting out. Current Ministry of Tourist regulations limit the number of rooms to 5 for a B&B. "otherwise you will be treated as a professional - (ie an hotel). Like it or not, that's the law. Why assume anything goes for us, when it doesn't for the French?
Ian Hoare, Forgès, France
It can be pretty tough even if one has no difficulty with the language, perhaps it was too big a project to start off with. Understanding the language does not necessarily mean understanding the people. Or being understood by them.
sarah, france, france
What's this "cultural gulf between Britain and other places"? As a Briton living in Italy I haven't noticed it. There are differences, interesting differences, positive differences, puzzling differences and annoying differences, but a "cultural gulf"?
Christine, Lecco, Italy
How much free time do you expect trying to run such an enormous place?.Frankly they jumped into the deep end and found it far too deep.
David Vinter,, Louth, Lincs,, UK.
What did they expect? They moved to another country without knowing the culture or mastering the language.
HH, La Celle-Saint-Cloud, France
Even if you speak the the language fluently, work in French and socialise in French it doesn't mean that you'll come to terms with the cultural differences. Home is home and sometimes you can just miss peoples sense of humour, the way people queue up for bus, a, excuse me on the tube or even a smile
ED, Paris,
When will people realise that to fit in with another culture you must learn the language? Surely is one of the basics.
DC, London,
They opened a business for passing visitors in a closed, elderly village in the country expecting to make deep friendships. It's always a "culture clash" problem for those returning to the UK. The language and customs are different but people are the same. Why go back? Try something else in France.
Peter Lea, Grasse, France
Most of the Brits who live in my area will not go to the trouble of learning French. One chap who has been here for 20 years said, "Why should I speak French?, I'm English!" Most Brits
think they will be fully understood if they speak English slowly and precisely.
brian keating, agde, france
Three years in France and one of them still doesn't speak French. Therein lies the problem. Too many Brits come here and try to live in a "little Britain". Brits should not move here unless they are prepared to fully integrate. This is France!
I do wish them the very best of luck back in the U.K
Marc, Paris, France
This isn't really a French issue more of a change necessitated by a change in their own lives!
If you had over 800,000 euros just buy a nice house for 200K and live on 600K whilst you learn the language, about the area and what you want to do!
It's a simpler, less materialistic lifestyle here!
Terry, Bagneres, France
Aimed too high and not representative of the majority who have made a success of things, by that I mean with their life and lifestyle. For many living here and enjoying a decent lifestyle and decent services a return to the UK with it's present problems ,not only econimical, fills us with gloom.
Bryn Davies, St.Malo, France
Why try and write a 'culture clash' into it?
They tried something they wanted to, were successful and now want something else. Best of luck to them, but not really anything to do with France. I too have lived and worked in France for eight years and wouldn't want to return to the UK.
HT, Paris, France
It sounds as though business wise they have been far more successful than most Brits who try the same thing.
But the phrase "we can't get to know people the same way as we can in Britain" says it all.
R.Bouchier, Doue la Fontiane, France
Not really sure this is anything to do with France : they bought a large B&B - now they have a family and don't want a large B&B - so they're moving!
I've been in France for over 8 years now - have my own business - and wouldn't dream of coming back to the UK.
Robert, Combourg, France